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Sunday, June 23, 2013

Do cats also get attached to people so much?

One of the drawbacks of shifting from our house was that we had to leave Speedy behind.

As cat lovers know, cats are used to places, and shifting them from their location is a dicey decision at the best of times. There is always a ‘What if...?’

While our house is being re-built, my parents moved into my brothers’ house next door while we have shifted to an apartment a couple of blocks away. Our cat, Speedy, is an ‘outdoors’ cat and is used to both the houses – ours and my brothers’. Also, my parents were anyway staying in the house next door, and in any case, we go to check on the work done at least twice a day. Hence, we decided to leave Speedy behind.

However, I don’t know who has taken this decision more to heart – us, or Speedy.

Daily, I have to deal with the hurt that my daughter feels that Speedy is not there whenever. (Another matter that I miss seeing Speedy on the kitchen window every mornings).

But more interestingly, it is Speedy’s behaviour that intrigues me.

For the past 6 years, Speedy has been the prim and propah lady who did not like being touched or petted too much. Every morning, she would sit in her favourite place on the ledge of the kitchen window, and listen while I would talk to her, mewing occasionally to show her interest. In the evenings, when I returned home from work, she would meet me about 50 meters away, and walk back to the house with me, her tail in the air like a flagpole. But apart from some rare occasions, if I bent down to pat her, she would wait for precisely 30 seconds or two strokes on her back, and then arch her back and walk away, as if saying, “That’s enough”.

But now, every evening when I go to see the house, Speedy clings to me like a baby. I have to stand for about 5 minutes while she goes round and round my legs, mewing her complaints about leaving her alone. Even my mother’s admonitions do not make her move. (She shares a love-hate relation with my mother, and disappears the minute my mother comes out). Rather, she curls more between my legs and purrs till I bend down and stroke her back, her cheeks and between her ears. And interestingly, now it is me who has to say, “Speedy, that’s enough”.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

I’m back...like a bad penny

Hi everyone!

One week, due to certain reasons, I did not write my blog.

The next week, the reasons still existed, and my blog time was set aside again.

There were many things I wanted to write about, which I kept noting on my phone, and deciding to post them on the weekend. But weeks passed, and I realised I was off blogging for nearly 8 months!

It’s so easy to break a habit, I tell you!

Anyway, now I’m back – like a bad penny.

It’s going to be a hectic time – new job, weekend classes, teaching assignments, house re-construction. However, amid all this, I shall now endeavour to continue posting something.

After all, this is my blog. And I resolve not to let external factors impact my ‘me’ time – and doing what I like doing.

So keep watching this space folks. Although really, I write for myself!